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#Blog: 🌸 Take Control #RudyGiuliani Good Luck! by #LeslieFischman #MYMOLLYDOLL 

Moving on is the hardest part. The more pieces we can put together the better off we’ll be moving forward. Living in fear is the worst consequence. Never let them win. Always outsmart your opponent on all bases, don’t let them keep up, always move forward five steps ahead of the game. Pray often, and exercise your rights, & seek the change you wish to see in the World. Don’t passively watch life occur on its own terms, adjust the terms where you see fit, based upon what the conditions will allow. Always be in control. Meaning always be proactive, taking preventative measures daily, keeping up with the times, and taking any necessary action or steps you see fit. What is necessary is for you to decide, based upon the patterns you recognize, the knowledge you have, and the dreams you wish see come to fruition. To plan for the future you must first see it to believe in it, then help others work together to create a mutual understanding upon which change can occur, based upon the terms you set & decide upon, from which we all grow. We are bound by similarities & differences in opinion, truth, fact, & fiction all play a role in how we see the World & to what extent our decision making gets rationalized, be a painter not an observer in life, that’s how you maintain control, feel in control, & reduce fear of the future. What you see, we see, that’s what leadership is all about. (Advice to #RudyGiuliani).

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#Blog: 🌸 Always Be Grateful for Those There for You When You Were Lost by #LeslieFischman #MYMOLLYDOLL 

We cried, we laughed, we have so much to be thankful for. In order for anything to be possible we must first have a belief in oneself, that such goals can be accomplished. Rarely on our own or left to our own devices but while given a hand by another. Always be thankful for those who never left you astray, believed in you, and made you feel special. Only together can such lofty goals as peace be accomplished. It only takes a second to lose footing, but lifetimes to achieve. Always be appreciative of those who have helped guide us in the right direction, without whom we would still be lost. It’s times like these we show gratitude, honor, & respect for those who have fallen while fighting to protect the lives we lead. Never wait for the right moment to be of service, but always do your best to contribute thoughtfully as best you can, it takes many to rise to lift the fallen, and one to shine brighter than the rest to give hope, never lose faith in oneself. You can’t start over in life, you can only pick up the pieces and make due with positions handed to you, not everything in life is a choice. The only way to undo patterns that break us is to see beyond. We see best when things are right, we freeze when somethings off, and we rest when things get done. Always trust those who protect you from harm, enjoy not just the end result, but always have an appreciation for the work that led to those moments of closure & peace. What we recall repeats, what we learn transpires, what we fear is avoided, and what we see gets dictated to us to protect us from harm. See by those you trust, listen to those who protect, and accept those who have yet to reach peace from within and realize their potential. It’s to each’s own responsibility to do what is right, follow directions, and lead no one astray. When everyone gives up on you, the only one there for you when you are lost is often a stranger, I feel lucky to have been mentored by someone of great strength, compassion, and patience, without whom I would not have made it this far, or been able to be there for others, with confidence given to me by my education gifted to me and trust given by him to lead online. What I’ve learned is when you feel right, when others are scared, best to speak up, share your mind, and help not base your self worth on things or jobs, your fitness is by your health & accomplishments not always by acceptance. So long as you know the difference between right and wrong, you should have nothing to fear, including the opinions & criticisms shared by others, should not change you but make you stronger. Always be there for those who were there for you when you were down, lost, or dreaming.

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#Blog: 🌸 Take it Easy on Yourselves #SelfCare by #LeslieFischman #MYMOLLYDOLL 

Take it easy on yourselves. You only have one life to live. At least you have your friends, family, co-workers, and gym buddies -where would we be without a little comradere in life. Getting fit is the first step toward self-love, to look good, feel good, and be on the outside as loveable as we feel on the inside. Sometimes our appearances don’t match how we feel, and that’s okay. So long as you continue to set goals for yourself, challenge yourself day in and day out to be the best version of yourself you can be, you’ll be well on your way to happiness, living a life enjoyed not loathed, enthusiastic not depressed, positive not moody, and feel loved not repressed in self-hate. Remind yourself this is your life, no one else’s, how you live is a direct reflection of yourself, how much you care, and your self-worth. Be who you want to be around, someone you love as much as your significant other. Always rising to the occassion, on time, present, and aware of others, not locked in your own world. Life is a process, trust those around you, and take it one step at a time without backtracking or hesitation. Never give up on yourself, and others, be there for those you love and well enough to enjoy lifes blessings, appreciative. Life’s best lived present.

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#InstaQuote: Always Be Thankful for Everyone Who Comes Into Your Life by #LeslieFischman #MYMOLLYDOLL 

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#InstaQuote: What People Want by #LeslieFischman #MYMOLLYDOLL 

Be yourself. But it’s always a good idea to maintain some kind of standards in life. Always trying to better yourself everyday. That doesn’t mean go out there and be an opportunist. It just means to be aware of those you surround yourself with, as well as your influences in life. Online? The more people you can integrate into your life the better. There’s so much value to friendships that love cannot provide, it’s not all about romance. The better able you are to live life professionally, socially, the better able you will be to maintain friendships and romantic relationships. People desire those who are well liked and independent of others. In order to achieve love and be with someone with qualities you desire in another, you must often times first possess those qualities yourself. As people want to be with people who compliment them in life not bring them down. 

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#InstaQuote: Change First Comes From Within by #LeslieFischman #MYMOLLYDOLL 

In order to make a positive difference, I’ve learned that change first comes from within. It’s the changes that others see within you and around you that affects the way you and others are treated. Making a positive difference requires you to understand first what the needs of others are. Change is required because respect is needed. People only respect and listen to those who are most put together that is usually how it goes in life. Even at your expense others will put you down to make themselves look and feel more put together. Never try to change people, instead change yourself. It’s by the changes you make within yourself and demonstrate that causes you to make a positive difference and positively influence others. If you want to make positive difference always be willing to accept criticism and always be willing to grow. Never assume people are out to get you in life as most people are usually about themselves. They say to be the change you wish to see in the World. If there’s one thing that won’t change its judgments passed by others, in order to overcome the hurdle of nonacceptance or fear of rejection you must first be sound of mind and sound of heart and stable emotionally and profesdionally succeeding in life. It’s hard to make a difference once you’ve failed in life, if you ever lose your sense of purpose because of failure, always remember that change will get you back on track to where you want to be in life, change that must first come from within. 

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#InstaQuote: Managing Ourselves by #LeslieFischman #MYMOLLYDOLL 

#Blog: Don’t waste time arguing with thoughts, thoughts about what people think or thoughts about what you think or hear others say in response to anything you’ve written. This only disempowers you as a Writer. Write to the sound of your own voice to the beat of your own tune, not to the tune of another, that is how you differentiate yourself from other writers. When you write in response to others, you are no longer in control, but being controlled by the prompts of others, based upon their needs not your own. When you listen to much to others, the only person you are hurting is yourself, by not illustrating your current thought processes but replying in response to the thought processes of another. This is something you learn as a writer how to stay in control of your thoughts, how to stay in your zone, and how to fulfill your purpose as a writer and a Blogger not the purposes of those who criticize you, who wish to see you fail not succeed in life. It’s easy to read it’s difficult to write. The reader is always empowered the writer is always drained disempowers by putting into words their thoughts. My purpose for writing is to help those SIMILARLY SITUATED be better able to help themselves, never writing to the benefit of those who harm, insult, dismember, or cause chaos in the lives of others. This is not a scared straight program, this is not a head start program, this is not therapy. This is me sharing my thoughts to hopefully benefit you the reader in deciphering your own thoughts and emotions which are sometimes hard to articulate, figure out, or view situations from a positive standpoint. The purpose of my blogging is to help convert those who think negatively about themselves or others to see positively, the benefits of doing so, and why it is important to do so during these times. When one is harmed, in a position of helping others, many have the potential to be harmed, why it’s important to put personal issues with individuals aside when it comes to interfering with their ability to perform professionally. We don’t all know eachother in the same way, not on Social media, in real life, professionally, socially, or romantically and it is assumed that everyone behaves differently in each of these given situations. Therefore it’s never appropriate to judge someone as more or less professional because you only know them in one way romantically or socially.