Take it easy on yourselves. You only have one life to live. At least you have your friends, family, co-workers, and gym buddies -where would we be without a little comradere in life. Getting fit is the first step toward self-love, to look good, feel good, and be on the outside as loveable as we feel on the inside. Sometimes our appearances don’t match how we feel, and that’s okay. So long as you continue to set goals for yourself, challenge yourself day in and day out to be the best version of yourself you can be, you’ll be well on your way to happiness, living a life enjoyed not loathed, enthusiastic not depressed, positive not moody, and feel loved not repressed in self-hate. Remind yourself this is your life, no one else’s, how you live is a direct reflection of yourself, how much you care, and your self-worth. Be who you want to be around, someone you love as much as your significant other. Always rising to the occassion, on time, present, and aware of others, not locked in your own world. Life is a process, trust those around you, and take it one step at a time without backtracking or hesitation. Never give up on yourself, and others, be there for those you love and well enough to enjoy lifes blessings, appreciative. Life’s best lived present.
Never reveal your weaknesses in public. Weaknesses are used to judge you in the negative and test your character, your worries are your own, never share your worries or questions about others including yourself in life. What you have yet to figure out for yourself about yourself is no one’s business but your own. What you like, who you like, and you you’ve liked is your business no one else’s. People interested in digging for dirt, only dig for information to justify their negative judgments of you, without a complete understanding for why you are the way you are, prefer you outcasted to better themselves, appear better than, stronger then, to intimidate you when really it’s the other way around, they’re intimidated by you but unwillinging to admit your happiness and success threatens them, that’s why women attack women. Women attack women to put others down in order to look, feel, and appear better than superior to. Why, because the only thing that makes insecure women feel better than others, is to look better than others. Women secure with themselves don’t need looks or to worry about Image in order to get a man and keep a man. It’s what’s inside that counts, personality and confidence are everything.
Don’t let anyone make you feel like you’re not worth it in life. Your value should not be based on love & acceptance from others but by what you accomplish professionally. At the end of the day all you have is yourself & your career. The only people who should matter in the event of a social or romantic catastrophe should be your employers, after all they hired you & believed in you, so don’t let them down. Remember always family comes first. Whether you agree with them or not you should always accept them, their shared opinions of you, and always do your best everyday to be the best version of yourself. In adulthood there is no room for error, & you must live with the consequences of the mistakes you make in life and/or poor decision making. There is always room for improvement, no matter how difficult life can get, your first step forward always begins with acceptance, acceptance of self and others is always required to clear your mind, move forward, & not allow the past to hinder your future successes in life. One step at a time.
Nothing comes easy in life, including finding a Career and sticking to the path that you’re on. If it takes 3 jobs to make a paycheck, it takes 3 jobs. If it means no going out, staying home, and writing for a living, so be it. Sometimes you have to do whatever it takes to make ends meet. You may not be happy where you are but all your hard work will pay off eventually. Don’t listen to the negative voices saying “well they’re paying for it now.” For what? The only consequence of choosing to stay in School and Intern is that you get started later in life. That doesn’t mean you’re not working just as hard as the next person trying to earn a living and make ends meet. There’s no one to prove wrong under those circumstances, only person you need to please is yourself on your way up in life, no one else can tell you how to get there or what you need to do in order to achieve, that’s something we must each figure out on our own.
The best things in life come free to us. Usually when we least expect it. Always be open to change and new experiences as this is when we learn the most about ourselves and others. You cannot predict the future, at best we can prepare ourselves for it at the present. Don’t allow negativity to keep you from living your best life. The more prepared you are in life the more able you are to enjoy life and life’s blessings.
Whenever anyone passes judgment upon you that’s merely a manifestation of their own insecurities, things they fear others would say about them. Occurring when you are misinterpreted in the negative, and assumptions made prior to or because of can be justified by the statements they make in response. Your image is therefore a product of not only what you say but also affected by what people say about you. As a writer your opinions and judgments are never considered with weight given to your present circumstances if in the positive, any prior negative judgments passed will be used to negate any current placements or acceptances of you as a Writer or person. So long as you always do your best, no matter what your circumstances are, not allow negativity to get the best of you, you will always shine and be represented not by your moments of weakness and or failure but by your strength in spite of. We all want to be judged by our accomplishments in life and seen in the positive based on our present circumstances, which can only be achieved if you adhere to a set of standards that’s sets you apart from those moments of failure from which you can be judged in a positive light as having changed, improved, progressed as an individual and learned from those moments in life, by becoming a better person and achieving in spite of any setbacks you encounter along the way.
#Blog: Don’t waste time arguing with thoughts, thoughts about what people think or thoughts about what you think or hear others say in response to anything you’ve written. This only disempowers you as a Writer. Write to the sound of your own voice to the beat of your own tune, not to the tune of another, that is how you differentiate yourself from other writers. When you write in response to others, you are no longer in control, but being controlled by the prompts of others, based upon their needs not your own. When you listen to much to others, the only person you are hurting is yourself, by not illustrating your current thought processes but replying in response to the thought processes of another. This is something you learn as a writer how to stay in control of your thoughts, how to stay in your zone, and how to fulfill your purpose as a writer and a Blogger not the purposes of those who criticize you, who wish to see you fail not succeed in life. It’s easy to read it’s difficult to write. The reader is always empowered the writer is always drained disempowers by putting into words their thoughts. My purpose for writing is to help those SIMILARLY SITUATED be better able to help themselves, never writing to the benefit of those who harm, insult, dismember, or cause chaos in the lives of others. This is not a scared straight program, this is not a head start program, this is not therapy. This is me sharing my thoughts to hopefully benefit you the reader in deciphering your own thoughts and emotions which are sometimes hard to articulate, figure out, or view situations from a positive standpoint. The purpose of my blogging is to help convert those who think negatively about themselves or others to see positively, the benefits of doing so, and why it is important to do so during these times. When one is harmed, in a position of helping others, many have the potential to be harmed, why it’s important to put personal issues with individuals aside when it comes to interfering with their ability to perform professionally. We don’t all know eachother in the same way, not on Social media, in real life, professionally, socially, or romantically and it is assumed that everyone behaves differently in each of these given situations. Therefore it’s never appropriate to judge someone as more or less professional because you only know them in one way romantically or socially.