When Others Bring Out the Devil in You
by Leslie Fischman
Avoid temptation at all costs. This requires being able to differentiate need from necessity, and want from required to feel whole. What is it that causes you to behave in a way that you’re not proud of? Identify those triggers, and set boundaries for yourself and for those around you. Much about life requires communication, communication to express our needs and wants, professionally, socially, and romantically. It’s easy to get these things confused with one another during the process of communicating with one another. Friends are friends, lovers are lovers, and professional associations and communications should all be dealt with differently to ensure no miscommunication of needs and wants. Work is not for friendship, and your lovers are not for venting and negativity. This leaves much of your communication needs for balance to your friends, who are the ones you should confide in, not work or romantic relationships. -So how does the devil come into play? The Devil is your ego, the one that causes you to lash out at others, fall in love with the wrong people, drink or use drugs, or behave inappropriately. If you are someone who is emotional, overt behavior is caused by expressing yourself beyond the bounds of what is considered normal. Knowing that, know your limits with people, do not connect closely with those you do not wish to have extended relationships with, do not connect with those where the type of relationship gets skewed or crosses over to another kind of relationship making it therefore an inappropriate relationship. You choose who you bond with, it’s not required you bond with anyone you are not comfortable bonding with. Trust is required for any bond, trust that boundaries will be maintained, and trust that the relationship existing is not considered to be anything more than what it is. So don’t let the Devil convince you otherwise that there’s sonething more than what is, fall in love with the wrong people, know your limits. It’s easier when in a relationship bonded to avoid these situations, more likely to occur when single unattached to be courted by others and people to seek bonds with you. Everything in life needs balance. It’s your responsibility to maintain balance of communication in all relationships, not allow one to affect the other. Trust your instincts, ignore negative voices (Devil), and most of all be yourself and everything should fall into place both personally and professionally. The best way to deal with any conflict is to not respond at all, not waste your time explaining yourself to people who assume the worst to cause you to self-sabatoge to prove them right about you, be yourself don’t let negative voices cause you to question yourself, become paranoid, or cause you to behave in a way that does not reflect you in the positive, but causes you to act out of character appear mentally ill. Just ignore them.
Job Description & #BloggingCampaign Work History by Leslie Fischman
#BloggingCampaign was created by a Corporation I built, MYMOLLYDOLL. I have been working alone since 2013, beginning as a Court Reporter to the US Supreme Court in session, and later provided Document Services, a Courier & Correspondent to the US Supreme Court, Rand Paul, and The White House (President Barack Obama). We led with our HRC foot, all information provided was labeled with Issue: Mental Health, Education & Medical Records were provided to them; and HRC volunteering myself for study by their Human Research Committee. I also sent a Research Study Proposal to CU Boulder, in an effort to be compliant & in order to study Terrorism and it’s Effects on Society, to cure the problem of Homegrown Terrorism figure out from where and why these incidences of Violence were motivated to occur and for what reasons, figure out a negotiation strategy to reduce recidivism and continued violence for those reasons identified. We have since come up with many Solutions. That Spring 2013, I applied to HRW Counterrorism Unit, upon which no reply was given, I also sent a 25lb Box of Documents to The US Supreme Court, CA Supreme Court, and Federal Building prior to Boston. I also called FBINY prior to Boston. These incidences did not occur because of my blogging, but because my Counterrorism arguments were not acknowledged as such, or taken seriously by FBINY. The first agency I reported to regarding privacy concerns was #FBIDC. And requested to apply for a job, a business card was given to me at that time. Those were my responsibilities 2012-2013 to report to curtail to solve this epidemic.
Today I Blog, keeping it simple: Quotes, Fashion, Education, & Music. Sharing my Culture and exposure online to help raise awareness for Brady Campaign & Mom’s Demand. My duties include: Writing quotes daily, drafting a manuscript for a Book, represent the organizations I provide aide to by awareness campaigning, participating & volunteering at events & marches, corresponding on Twitter with professional organizations, offering feedback and suggestions to NRA following an attack, empowering those in the Helping Professions, reblogging pertinent information on Campaign blogs, meeting with professionals to perfect pitch and work product purpose & scope methodology, research and read stay up to date on current events & issues, reply to DNC mail surveys and questionnaires as a member since 2009, report to USArmy command post in Culver City as an applicant enlisted since 2009 eligible for basic training, and represent myself as best I can as a nominee for Best Integrated Campaign at this year’s Shorty Awards. (To be continued).
Gender Roles, Leadership, & Equality by Leslie Fischman
Just because we are given roles in life doesn’t mean we need to adhere to them. Sometimes you can’t take everything so literally in life. It’s okay to explore the horizon, see where you best fit in life. Those who take on leadership positions in life are great at taking on multiple roles. They are great at taking on multiple responsibilities, and setting a good example to those who follow and they lead. Never take on more than you can handle on your own, and always ask for help when help is needed. It’s to each’s his own responsibility to be guided and guide according to prescribed roles identified in society and social structures. Those who empower are admired, those powerful are envied, and those powerless are forgotten. Never forget where you came from. No one group is less important than the others, all our needs matter, until all our needs are met. Equality to me means bettering the lives of others because their livelihood matters too, not just my own. It means helping others, not at our own expense, but because it’s the right thing to do, rewarding because it should feel good to help enable others to achieve the same success in life if not become better stronger than ourselves. Fighting for equality, whether for education or any other rights, is what has made this Campaign so strong, exposure is everything, sharing is caring, and the ultimate key to empowerment is through education upon which all other ailments can be resolved. These are my beliefs, this is not why I created mymollydoll.com, but because the information I had was so valuable it was stolen from me, 2 computers, why archived work was placed online. In order for any change to occur, I believed it was most important to help the Professionals first, not the Kids, and by directly serving them, I hope that indirectly those populations currently suffering would be helped too. I aide those in the Helping Professions because that is my experience & specialty as a Researcher who graduated with Honors Cum Laude in Sociology, Ex-Psychology Major. I don’t discriminate, I know my place, and I set boundaries for myself, that is how my Campaign for #GunViolence Prevention, Entertainment, and Education has become so successful, known, and recognized by invitation to Brady Bear Awards & by invitation to Volunteer for Mom’s Demand. There is more work to be done. Thank you for following.
Moving on is the hardest part. The more pieces we can put together the better off we’ll be moving forward. Living in fear is the worst consequence. Never let them win. Always outsmart your opponent on all bases, don’t let them keep up, always move forward five steps ahead of the game. Pray often, and exercise your rights, & seek the change you wish to see in the World. Don’t passively watch life occur on its own terms, adjust the terms where you see fit, based upon what the conditions will allow. Always be in control. Meaning always be proactive, taking preventative measures daily, keeping up with the times, and taking any necessary action or steps you see fit. What is necessary is for you to decide, based upon the patterns you recognize, the knowledge you have, and the dreams you wish see come to fruition. To plan for the future you must first see it to believe in it, then help others work together to create a mutual understanding upon which change can occur, based upon the terms you set & decide upon, from which we all grow. We are bound by similarities & differences in opinion, truth, fact, & fiction all play a role in how we see the World & to what extent our decision making gets rationalized, be a painter not an observer in life, that’s how you maintain control, feel in control, & reduce fear of the future. What you see, we see, that’s what leadership is all about. (Advice to #RudyGiuliani).
No matter how hard you try you cannot control the past, or another’s interpretation of past events. The only thing you can control is your reaction to the past and the opinions shared by others. What will be will be. Meaning focus on the present, let the past be the past, and the future for you to decide. You can only control two things, your present and your future. Focus on those two things more than reflecting on past scenarios, best to prepare now for the future setting goals that reflect your understanding of the past, processed, and how you’ve been able to let go and move forward in a more positive direction. Don’t let anyone or anything hold you back from living your best life, including your past.
Nothing lasts forever, and everything is temporary. It’s all about perspective. Education is key to your understanding. Where you see yourself, in relation to others, is a direct reflection of yourself education & experience in life. You are what you read and learn. Confidence comes through exposure, the more you can relate to different settings, the more capable you’ll be of blending in and feeling comfortable with yourself. Comfort is achieved by knowledge, knowledge is achieved by a combination of education & experience. Therefore if you’re lacking confidence the best way to get strong is to travel, try new things, read, and explore different settings to help adjust your own. While adjusting your settings, you learn how to better control not only how you perceive yourself in relation to others, but also how to strengthen your sense of self in relation to others. Confidence issues and insecurity occur when you compare yourself to others. Love yourself enough to know that you are perfect just the way you are. Start there and everything else should fall into place.
Life is all about routine. Whether it’s practicing healthy habits, focusing on skincare, or going to the gym weekly, you get to decide what needs to get done to feel your best. What makes you feel complete? Do you have trouble sleeping at night? What do you need to do to get to where you want to be in life? What keeps you going and motivated? These are great questions to ask yourself whenever you feel, lonely, irritable, and lost. Means you’re not where you’re supposed to be in life and falling behind. Catching up is easy when you set goals, hard when you waste time looking back in regret. Get on point, by establishing a routine that helps you function best, it’s never too late to start over or build a new you. Don’t beat yourself, follow step by step guides, read Self-help books, get a trainer or life coach, join a gym, do whatever it takes to get going again. The worst thing you can do is to stop everything and mourn the loss of who you were, love yourself now and do what you can to repair yourself, don’t look back, keep moving forward, routine is everything! What you do now, will determine where you end up in life, always focus on the present, to lift yourself up to where you need to be to get going again.