We all wish there were nights that never happened and people we never met. We are told these things happen. Some moments in life we can’t undo, but that doesn’t mean we have to relive the same nightmares over again. Making smarter decisions for ourselves is one way to stay out of trouble, on our toes, and out of harms way. Choosing to be Sober is one decision I’ve made. -Your self-esteem is a product of your experiences in life. Some for better or worse help shape us into the people we are today. Remember you are always a stronger person having had experiences in life which have caused you hardship, that’s understandable. What you choose to make of yourself afterwards is your choice. You can either beat yourself up over bad choices in life or you can choose to take a different path in life, and not let anyone or any one moment keep you from living your life as best you can. There are such unfortunate circumstances when we become disabled by experiences that cause us grief & embarassment, you are not alone. Just remember you decide for how long the harm lasts for, it’s up to you to move on, with or without forgiveness, and be the person you wanted to be in life, had you not been harmed.