Be yourself. But it’s always a good idea to maintain some kind of standards in life. Always trying to better yourself everyday. That doesn’t mean go out there and be an opportunist. It just means to be aware of those you surround yourself with, as well as your influences in life. Online? The more people you can integrate into your life the better. There’s so much value to friendships that love cannot provide, it’s not all about romance. The better able you are to live life professionally, socially, the better able you will be to maintain friendships and romantic relationships. People desire those who are well liked and independent of others. In order to achieve love and be with someone with qualities you desire in another, you must often times first possess those qualities yourself. As people want to be with people who compliment them in life not bring them down.