Don’t be so easily fooled by the judgments passed by others. Always best to think for yourself. In one ear our the other. Always see the positive, and don’t allow the negative interpretations made by others to cause you to think otherwise. Speaking badly of others always seems to make the other look like the better stronger person. Life has a strange way of working itself out. Why its best never to speak badly of others and just do your best to only speak positively with regard to others, keeping our criticisms to ourselves unless constructive feedback is asked for. Always best to focus on yourself not the problems of others.