Just because you have it all does not mean people want to be you or envy you. Just because you have what others do not have does not mean you or more blessed or have what they want and/or missing in life. Another’s unhappiness is never accurately assessed by the subjective interpretations of others, we are not all the same. Some of us are happy with less in life, and decide to have less in life because we do not wish to be targeted as someone with more. Sometimes you have to accept people the way they are whether or not you are happy with them or their progress in life. Just because they don’t have what you have in life doesn’t mean they should be treated as less than or criticized for how they live their life. To each his own.